Are you ‘bossy’ or ‘commanding’? It depends on your gender

Some words, by their very definition, are meant to describe men or women: an actress, say, or a nephew. But other words, despite being gender-neutral, seem to get used – often negatively so –  exclusively for one sex or the other. Take the adjectives below: same basic definition, likely different recipients. Which words do you think are used to describe women, and which men?

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Moody
Temperamental
Big spender
Extravagant
Commanding
Bossy
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How everyone voted:
Moody
 
Temperamental
 
Big spender
 
Extravagant
 
Commanding
 
Bossy
 
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